Family is so very important. I have been fortunate to expand my family later in life. I did so when I married Mark and gained step-children and grandchildren. I have enjoyed the many times that we have cooked for our children and been able to bring them together as we get to know each other better. This past week I have been fortunate to get to know my step-grandchildren from Michigan a little better. A week ago today I was in Illinois visiting a friend I taught with when I lived down there. Last Sunday we drove into Chicago suburbs to meet Mark's daughter, Shannon and her husband, Jeff. While there we had a lovely lunch with them at a great Mexican restuarant. After dinner, Shannon & Jeff handed their children over to me to bring back to Minnesota for two and a half weeks until they come for a wedding. It has been wonderful,(and tiring), having Grace (7) and Michael (10) spending time with Mark & myself. I even went as far as having the other three grandchildren come spend several nights with us. Am I crazy? Yes! And I love it. It was so wonderful to bring these five children together as they built their 'cousin' connection. The other grandchildren are my daughter ( Jennifer's & son-in-law Josh's children, Braiden (7) and Emma(4) as well as Mark son, Shaun's daughter Kiara (7). I listened as the girls played house and as all five played video games. Michael soon became Emma's friend as he cheered her up when she got hurt. She coined him 'Silly Michael'. I had to break up a controversy of boys versus girls, guess that proves they have truly built that 'cousin' connection. I also made pancakes and made more pancakes as all five sat around the kitchen table at breakfast telling stories and laughing. I saw the older girls demonstrate caring and consideration as they included Emma in their play or made sure she was getting candy from the parade. I watched as the boys joined in play with the girls playing house or store as well as sharing video games. It really touched my heart to see the five children get along so well. I was also touched as I know this experience will build memories for these children that nothing can ever replace. This has been a wonderfull treat for me and Mark. We are so blessed to have such wonderful children and such beautiful grandchildren.
